A decade is about to end, it was indeed a decade to remember! An eventful decade it was I must say, grife, pain, struggle, friendships, relationships🧐, love, laughter, break ups, patch ups, hiccups🤪 it had it all!😜
A decade ago I was a different person, decade later I will be a different person. This 10yesrs taught me the biggest lessons of my life, those I can never forget!😏
The decade started on a positive note to last for 2 days. Although, on 3rd January 2010 I had my 2nd stroke and my 3rd major flare up! Aphasia it was! I lost my speech, partially paralyzed! Couldn’t move jaw or tongue, 😟couldn’t swallow or speak🤐! It was dreadly, if I may say so…
Although I can’t survive without talking & with the help of Mom & school buddies I got better and could speak slowly in a few months and thought the nightmare was over!
It surely wasn’t!
Mom got cancer in the same year and I Felt devastated! 💔
She fought for life but lost it in 2011, 17 June!
It was the worst I have ever been through, I thought!
Never think that!
Life thinks you are challenging it and Life gears up for More..😏😜
So I got a job, worked , ate, see movies, roamed around with friends, was alive, though not living!
Life went on and I changed my job, now working with an assumed friend, by the end of 2012.
☺️ Thought Life will get better and track now!☺️
In 2013, fractured my shoulderhower and had to get it operated! Staying alone with rods inserted and hand tied up was another deal by itself!
By 2014 I felt nauseous and vomited on and off, tolerating no food at all,by the end of 2014, in November of 2014 I was diagnosed with celiac 🤪& it was another mystery to solve!
I mean what on earth is gluten free!😟
So living a gluten free Life was a new task in itself!😨
All geared up for the adventure, life went on … 🙄
Worked as much as I could to stay diverted!
Though with fizzy health work suffered. In march of 2016 I was diagnosed with gastroparesis!☺️
Yes! Now my stomach is paralyzed, partially working💔🤯, and it is creating a big time mess! It delays the gastric emptying time miserably in my case!🤐🥢
Not only I had delayed emptying the stomach the problem with solids, I had delayed stomach emptying time for liquids as well!
Wow, so even water sits back for 45 minutes!
Insanely crazy my life is acting to be!
So the rest of 2016 went on fighting gastroparesis immediate response and helping myself live better with friendships put on test by time !
Nevertheless, I ended up in depression in 2017, Man! It was too much to deal with. That too all alone…
Well amidst all the mess of friendships at testing to medical conditions worsening there I was in love with this man, Mr. Invincible, he is a man I respect for the courage to love a patient while seeing the girl within me!
2018 came as a good year, we planned to get married that year, I was happy …
Hello! No more depression for me!
We without anyone to call as immediate family, got married on December 10, 2018. Well with all those people who love both of us unconditionally & I can say undoubtedly!☺️☺️💗💗💗💗😘😘😘
2019 started on the best note, me & hubby started with welcoming the year in Mumbai, meet my GodFather Doctor! Then coffee at Starbucks & eat & drink at social, take blessings at sidhivinayak temple!
Life went on, on Mom’s birthday 21st April we bought in our lives Oreo! 🐾🐾
Oreo, our golden retriever, he was 10 weeks puppy when we got him and he is the best blessing in our lives! Life went on with health staying good someday & bad other days! But life goes on…
However, I quit my job this year, and hubby soon had to leave his job because of my health! So the year was a bit shaky!
Some lessons learned this decade were:
- Health is the most important thing in the world. 😇
- You are enough for yourself 😉
- Live while alive!
- Value the people who love you!
- Mother is God incarnate! Respect, love & cherish her always!
- Cherish the movement ❣️
- Live in NOW 😊
- You deserve love, no matter what☺️💗
- Someone somewhere is made for you, when the time’s right you will get your soulmate!🤗💗💞
So, the essence of the whole decade was lessons taught by life! They were most important … Important for the Life ahead and hopefully a good, healthy life ahead!